Sometimes love just ain’t enough
The word "love" is so overrated, overstated and overused in today's world. Before you blurt out those three words, have you ever asked yourself what love is?
posted by saisai at 10:56 AM
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posted by saisai at 10:56 AM
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sorry, forgot to mention that I only referred to romantic love.
I watched this drama called "Chinese style divorce," very interesing, it depicts a young couple, they were crazy in love, got married, and soon the girl got pregnant. During the girl's pregnancy, the guy got really horny, so he cheated on her with some prostitutes. to cut the long story short, they ended up divorced and the girl had an abortion. When they walked out of the court house with their legal documents in hands, the girl burst into tears, they both admitted they were still in love with each other, "I love you, honey, let's start over!" the guy said, but the girl shook her head and said "only love is not enough"... It might be true that the guy still got feelings for her, physically or emotionally or whatever, but can we call that love? or if that is love, is love alone powerful enough to sustain a marriage?
It must be rare to find such kind of men on the face of this planet, those who save sex for their special someone after marriage.
that's true, I think women are more drawn to the "bad" guys cuz they consider the "good" guys too bland, I guess.
See if I got two guys pursuing me right now,(I mean hypothetically, tho I really wish I could),one of them is the bad boy type, cool and popular and stuff, and the other one is so nice, kinda a geeky type. what's the word for this kind of behavior, like I would choose the bad boy over the nice boy even tho the nice boy treats me better than the other one?
reason is that the nice guys is too bland, he is not the type I would be head over heel in love with, there is just no chemistry whatsoever.
bad boys are after bad girls, bummer! I remember I had this all good girl v. bad girl conversation with my Dad one afternoon. I asked him that what type of woman would be more successful since often times women who sleep around could get their ways much faster while those good girls often sacrafice their career to become stay-at-home moms.My Dad didn't give me a definite answer, he said it depended on how you interpret success, I guess it's a dilemma for him to answer the questions. At one hand, he wants his baby girl to succeed professionally, and at the same time, he wants me to have a happy family...sometimes we don't get to have both.
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