Boys and Girls

It seems as if God made us this way, boys don't understand girls, girls just don't get boys. I don't believe there is such thing called perfect couple. There are always things we girls want that the boys can not give and don't know how to give. We wait, we sigh, then we cry, but we have the pride not to ask for it; boys at the other hand, they go on, they laugh, then they confuse. Girls are selfless and boys are selfish. Girls will sacrifice a lot for the boy, but boys won't miss a game for the girl. Girls are made complicated, and boys are made simple. Girls are ultra-sensitive, yet boys are super-insensitive. Girls want huddles and kisses, yet boys only want you know what...... the list can go on and on. It's a curse that God cast upon us, I guess, and it's also the curse that creats all those dramas in love. yeah, dramas, it reminds me of my first love... it surprises me that I still hold grudges against my ex whenever I think about him, I mean after all those years. In my system, he is charged of three accounts of oblivion, and he is guilty as charged. first account, back in my freshman year, we went out to a late night concert and got back at midnight, the girls' dorm had already been locked and I had to yelled at the gatekeeper and waited for her to put her clothes on and open the gate for me. "okay, I'm gonna head back to my room now," he left me in the middle of the night just like that. Watching him running away, I wanted to yell "wait, wait with me for a while, I'm scared," but I didn't... ...second account, we were all talking in the hall about going to a party with some new friends. everybody needed to chip in, but he forgot to bring money, so I had to climb up 9 flights of stairs to get some for him. but when I came back down, everybody was gone, even him, he didn't even bother to ask everybody to wait up for me... the last one, I hated him the most for it. My dad was sick, and I told him about it via email, but never heard back from him, not a word of consolation. Sure we had our moments, but these three events are more than enough to negate them all. I'd be blind if I continue to believe that he cares about me. We ended this for good, I always tell myself whenever I miss him cuz girls need sometime to heal after breakups, but boys they just rock on like nothing happened......