It's not just about love

When you are young, you fall in love, so head-over-heel, so passionate that you think you can sacrifice anything just for love. However, as you grow up, you gradually realize that it's not that simple. You see, I love you + You love me does not necessarily produces marriage on the other side of the equation. Somehow, you find out that you are not the one that matters in your own life. It's not just about love, about you, about the two of you, there are a gazillion other people, things, dreams, broken hearts, ... ... pulling at you. Suddenly, it's not about you anymore. You are not important. It's not about love any more, love is trivial. Let's talk about reality, let's talk about being practical. No wonder people always say that growing up sucks. Grownups and children hold totally different systems of logic. So, what do we do? or should we ask, what do you want me to do?